The Nine of Wands lets us know that the fight may have been bloody or you may even be fighting, but it urges you to continue because you will finally be victorious.
Upright Nine of Wands in Love Tarot Reading
The Nine of Wands indicates that you have to be calm and patient. It is possible that the relationship is under a lot of analysis, you or your partner (or both) break everything down and while this can be good, constantly questioning and “fighting” can be harmful.
But since it is a trump card, whatever the situation that the couple is going through, things will improve, you just have to be careful that the cost is not too high, one or the other is not too hurt. You may have to defend the relationship with your partner from attack by third parties.
If you are looking for love, you may have to compete with others who want the same goal. You win in the end, but the battle can be long.
Reversed Nine of Wands in Love Tarot Reading
The flip card indicates that you may be having a stubborn and foolish attitude. You believe that you are right all the time and your partner is wrong, and therefore you refuse to listen to or accept their views.
Nor do you achieve anything by imposing your vision by force, you must have a soft approach where rationality prevails, no one wants to listen to an arrogant and closed person. Keep the dialogue open, kind and calm.
In another aspect, there may be some external threat to the relationship, a third person, an opposing family, money issues or other factors that complicate life as a couple.
If you are alone, maybe you are not in the best time to start a relationship. There are things from the past that you have not yet overcome, and until you let go and let go, until you resolve the above, it will be difficult for you to build a new bond.
There is also the possibility that you will have to face competition that is fighting the same objective as you.