The Seven of Wands is a card of struggle and combat, often against invisible enemies and threats, against which, despite the conflict, we will prevail.
Upright Seven of Wands in Love Tarot Reading
The Seven of Wands tells you that if you already have a committed relationship, don’t hesitate to say what you think to your loved one. This can only improve the relationship.
There may be obstacles such as opposition from other people who envy the relationship you have and may also try to destabilize it. In some cases it means the appearance of someone far away that complicates things for the couple.
If you are looking for love, you should fight for the person that interests you, since there may be other people interested in them. You can beat them perfectly if you focus well.
Reversed Seven of Wands in Love Tarot Reading
If you are already in a relationship, the reversed seven of wands indicates that one of the two, or both, goes through a moment of many doubts and indecision. This may be a fear of moving forward and making a commitment, or in some case, an indication that it is not the right time now to define things in the relationship.
It is likely that there is a high degree of competition in the couple and also jealousy and arguments, caused most of the time by a lack of trust and security. This jealousy can be absolutely unfounded, unsupported by reality, a fight against invisible ghosts.
It is not a good starting point for questions or drastic solutions because everything can just be the product of imagination and low personal self-esteem.
If you are looking for love, you must lower your pretensions, since the ideal and perfect partner is very likely not to exist as such. Get out there and have fun and take it easy. Give the other a chance without forcing them to meet all your expectations. Each one is what it is.