The Four of Swords is an urgent rest and reflection, and its figure shows us a church where there is an imposing tomb of a knight whose figure lies on top.
Upright Four of Swords in Love Tarot Reading
The Four of Swords indicates that you may feel quite disconnected at this time. It is important that you let your partner know what is happening to you, but at the same time it is not your obligation to feel good all the time so that he feels good.
Your feelings and emotions are yours and you have certain areas that no one can reach more than you. It can be an indication of taking time, of taking a few moments to reflect. Feel free to do it.
If you are looking for love, it is not the time to force things, neither you are in a position to give nor others to fulfill the expectations you have. It is a moment of solitude but well understood, it can be very positive for your life. A better time will come and everything will be directed, for now, rest from relationships.
Reversed Four of Swords in Love Tarot Reading
There is a certain disconnect in the couple, mainly on your part, but also from your partner. This is surely not due to feelings, it is not a lack of them or love, but responds to internal, personal, intimate issues, so neither one nor the other should take things very personally. Try to distance yourself to find out what is happening and to be able to solve things.
If you are looking for a partner, you must take risks beyond your comfort zone, your circles. Rarely does love come to your door by magic, you must go out and mix with people to create possibilities.